• MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca
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    5 months ago

    Unless that’s a surprise (that he likes men), I’m not sure how much of a problem that would really be.

    But far be it for me to tell anyone what should and shouldn’t upset them.

    • CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works
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      5 months ago

      Even if he likes men, and she knew, being told that you’re thought of as the gender you’re not isn’t something most people want. Calling a girl a dude when they identify as a girl isn’t exactly flattering.