Literally I just have this realization while watching a TV show… like… HOWWW.
She literally just starts talking to neighbors… random strangers…
like just out of no where…
Wtf…
Was she always like this? Did her having children changed and just made her not fear that anymore? Like does survival triumph everything else and so just have to be fearless to pave the way for us
Oh why the hell is my dad kinda just… idk I see a part of him in me…
He’s been in the US for 15 years and barely any English…
I mean like the quietness part… cuz my mom managed… which I’m attibuting the English ability to the confidence thing vs my dad’s quietness and I just feel like he’s unassertive…
Like my mom practically runs the household lmfao…
Looking at it this way… it no wonder why my mom would be so disappointed in my depressed-ass
I mean if I were in my mom’s position… I’d hate me too…
I’m such a disappointment…
It’s simple.
Talk to random strangers over 50 years old. The people who grew up without phones. To them, a conversation with a stranger is normal. “Is there a good bakery nearby?” “I like that T-shirt.” "No one is going to get mad or call the police.
It’s like any other exercise. You pick up a 2 kilo dumbbell on Monday and by Friday you’re up to a 5 kilo one.