That is daft coming from you who doesn’t want to treat people equally and finds it acceptable to misgender people at all. Not being a transphobe means that you will not engage in behavior that uniquely transpeople experience but cispeople don’t. If it was a cisperson, it wouldn’t even cross your mind to misgender them just because you don’t respect them, but you are willing to use the fact that someone is trans against them.
That is daft coming from you who doesn’t want to treat people equally and finds it acceptable to misgender people at all. Not being a transphobe means that you will not engage in behavior that uniquely transpeople experience but cispeople don’t. If it was a cisperson, it wouldn’t even cross your mind to misgender them just because you don’t respect them, but you are willing to use the fact that someone is trans against them.