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  • My mom is a vicious insane manipulative monster of a human. I don’t talk to her, estranged for years. My aunt/her sister has a distant sort of relationship with her, in that they see each other sometimes at family gatherings and will like loan each other a book or something, but don’t confide in one another or anything. My aunt knows what she’s like.

    Anyway my aunt had surgery for cancer last year, didn’t tell my mother anything about it and told her immediate family not to tell her. Her kids and their families know what my mother is like and told her nothing. However my mother caught a whiff of it because someone they both knew saw my aunt going to the surgeon’s consultation appointment, and called sniffing for gossip. My aunt didn’t tell her anything, but my mom was an OR nurse, so she got a former coworker who was still working there to find out the details, and showed up and stuck her face in hers as my aunt was almost about to be taken to surgery. It was not a visit, you understand, she showed up to let my aunt know that she KNEW and she couldn’t keep it secret from her. She did not visit her once surgery was over at all, or send her a card or anything. Just showed up for a few minutes to make it clear that she knew.

    So yeah my mom is crazy.