I know it’s going to be unpopular here, but I am generally against trans girls in girls sports. It’s a situation ripe for abuse.
However, nobody is abusing it right now. Going after a girl who has maintained her status since the second grade is clearly just malicious and vindictive. There is nothing to be gained from misgendering her other than cruelty for political points. Reprimanding her mother is ridiculous and cruel.
It’s also nearly impossible to allow anyone to join a school team as long as you don’t win.
If the games stayed local, I’d be okay with her playing on the team. Maybe she could play JV, but never make Varsity. (I don’t really know how high school sports work.)
I generally agree that she shouldn’t be taking opportunities set aside for girls on the state or competitive levels. If Michael Phelps clear advantages could be the result of specific medical intervention, I’d say the same there.
It’s reasonable to keep state level competitions set aside for girls. The hate and attacks that come with the people who often enforce that shit is not.
Backups. You should be taking regular backups whether it’s you hosting or Google. If you are, there’s really very little risk.
You’ll also have the images on the phone, which should remain long enough for the images automatically stored to get into backup storage. Personally, all my images upload from my phone automatically after I’m on WiFi for 10 minutes.