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Cake day: January 16th, 2025

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  • idk I think people shouldn’t be able to sell their children into marriages at 14 years old just because they don’t share my beliefs that that’s horrible. Meanwhile they think that an abortion harms a child in a way that outweighs b the mother’s right to decide whether or not her body gets used as life support and I don’t. I think whether or not it’s important to meddle in other’s private and family lives is actually a fairly complicated question.


  • I’m using owncloud for that but (don’t hate me) I’m having to use chatgpt a LOT for the initial configuration. There’s a lot of stuff I’m having to learn to get back into it and it’s really good at searching docs by fuzzy match, pointing out what part of a function block isn’t working, and drafting individual function blocks to experiment with (I’ll comment out the original, paste in the chatgpt one, test it, etc). It’s a much better experience than a decade ago and I haven’t gotten emotionally abused by a more experienced person on stack overflow or reddit once yet.

    I’ve got owncloud running as a lan only service so it just auto syncs my calendar, contacts, and a few folders of documents / pictures I like to keep with me but only whenever I’m home. Right now I’m just also configuring the same old computer to do some basic media / retro gaming on the TV and the hard part right now is configuring magic mirror as it’s idle display to keep hubs and I straight on our calendars and tasks (and show some family photos). Nothing major just as I get back onto Linux after ten years it’s nice to not get called lazy and stupid while I’m learning.










  • you say you’re worried about harassing her. we need more context on why you’re worried about this to be able to give the best answer. If this is a professional context for either or both of you, the focus should be maximizing your professional rapport by reassuring her without mentioning romance. if it’s a very laid back workplace where strict boundaries aren’t 100% mission critical you miiight get away with something like “in a different life I’d like to know you a little better actually, but I think the most important thing for both of us right now is to keep this professional.” vs if this is an entirely personal relationship you could try something more like,"I’d actually like to know you better if you’re interested but I didn’t want to overstep.“