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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • Just back from dinner with the guy who organises the local Meetup dining group.
    I’d dropped into the conversation when he invited me to a cafe that I wasn’t looking for a relationship right now, just to lay it on the table, then after some messaging that was pushing the boundaries and some blatantly flirtatious behaviour in front of others I had to have a stern talk of the You’re Making Me Uncomfortable Back Off variety.
    So he walked me home, came in briefly to meet the cats and then I drove him home making it plain that I was just going to drop him home and run.
    So what does he do? Ask me to stay the night!
    Firstly NO, secondly I’ve never left the cats alone overnight and I’m not going to start now, thirdly I Told You I’m Not Interested Several Times Jesus Christ.