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  • Trusting your gut makes sense. It sounds to me like he’s got a medium level of interest, but isn’t in a hurry to hang out terribly often. Part of it could be that, since he already lives in the area, he’s just going to prioritize existing family and close friends over a possible new one.

    Making friends in a new place can be frustrating. Just find various kinds of meetups (sports, volunteering, hobbies, clubs, etc) that interest you and eventually you’ll pick up a couple of friends. You have to go in with no expectations for any particular person, but put out invites and see who ends up wanting to hang.

    Good luck, keep trying! It took me a year to build up a base of friends when I moved fairly recently.