Lots of good ideas here. For other reasons I use:

find /path/to/mount -xdev -printf '%p\t%y\t%s\t%T@\n' | zstd > /path/to/output_fs.tsv.zst

on a regular basis. For convenience I also munge the output into json so that it can be piped into gdu -f - for a very convenient tui interface; but you could also just pass -o to gdu and save the resulting json. Very convenient.

Yeah, I don’t disagree. I’m still on the 10.x branch (will need to upgrade to the 11.x branch in a few weeks, after the annual conference is done), so I didn’t experience the UI fuck up, but it sounds ominous… sigh…

Everyone’s using a client; the snikket invitation link makes it pretty easy – I just print the kids a QR code (or text a link to their parents), and they’ve all figured it out easily enough. It’s not perfect, don’t get me wrong, but it’s the best I was able to come up with and it’s been successful.

I tested this thoroughly, and confirmed it’s the encryption overhead, no question. It may not matter when you’re talking to a server over the internet, but I’m on the same 2.5GBe LAN as my N100 box, and going over wireguard is noticeably slower than without.

I run Mattermost successfully for a small-ish academic professional org, and tbh it’s been simple, straightforward, and really pretty good. I live in constant fear of the ever-nearing and inevitable rug-pull, though – they do seem to regard the open-source/self-hostable side as something they do on a minimum-effort basis only because they have to, so I would be hesitant to go down this road if I was starting again.

I host snikket (which is built on top of prosody) for my family and (especially) my pre-teen children and their friends. Pretty happy with it, all things considered.

Connecting to my N100-based box on my LAN is measurably (and noticeably) slower over tailscale than without. The encryption overhead is not nothing, and it can be meaningful depending on CPU hardware. (To be clear, not OP’s problem, just commenting on “Tailscale on itself isn’t a measurable overhead.”)

First one-click RCE is in: https://www.reddit.com/r/LocalLLaMA/comments/1ttls1y/just_found_a_1click_rce_in_pewdiepies_odysseus/ … smh …