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siad/iad i ngaelic ; they/them in english

soirbhíoch dúshlánach ; defiant optimist

apparently a neoliberal & bad news, for opposing climate-change-accelerating genAI 🤷

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Cake day: September 27th, 2025

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  • If men are facing a loneliness epidemic, they could learn to be friends with one another, enjoy one anothers’ company, and open up to one another about being lonely etc, instead of expecting women to train them.

    I cant train men on how women want to be treated, and I wouldnt even want to tell men how women should be treated seeing as im not a woman.

    Women want to be treated as equals to men, to be paid the same as men are, to be promoted in jobs as often as men are, and to be represented in government and media as much as men are. This is absolutely something that men can and should tell other men about.








  • for myself, if i can recover passwords etc, i delete the account to lower the possibility of that data being used to train ai, and to lower the numbers of registered accounts they have.

    i think stakeholders are more likely to see accounts being deleted as worse than an inactive account, because people can always come back to an inactive account.

    so many websites are eager to keep users by making it difficult to delete accounts, or by adding a 14 day wait before they’ll delete an account, etc., so that alone makes me think they want even inactive accounts for usage statistics or to steal data from.





  • the average person wouldn’t buy a new bed/mattress/wardrobe for a hostel (or even a hotel) they were staying in for a few weeks, no. buying larger furniture items like that would generally indicate to a family that OP might intend to stay longer than a few weeks.

    it’s not really about the cost, but about making sure that everyone’s communicating their plans/return dates/expectations, so no one’s in for an unpleasant surprise when OP heads home.

    overcommunication will at worst result in a “we know, you’ve told us all before”, while undercommunication could result in “i assumed you’d changed your mind about leaving, after you bought so many things for the house”




  • not at all, he was a creep in his 30s, grooming a child. probably multiple kids, by pretending to be younger & posting a teenage boy’s (previous victim’s?) photos over & over in a discord. 🤢 i’m so sorry you experienced this.

    he accused you of the thing he was doing, to mess with your head. it means you end up defending yourself against something you couldn’t possibly have done (since you were a child), to distract you from the fact that he’s doing the grooming.

    baseless accusations are often confessions.





  • that whole page is wild, i’d no idea margarine was outright banned in some places for nearly a century, resulting in bootleg margarine, or that there were so many bans on colouring it yellow to rival butter. 🤯

    some places forcing margarine to be pink (to make it seem unpalatable) wouldn’t have worked on me imo, foods need more whimsy