I once ghosted a friend of some fifteen years after a friend of nearly twenty years told me he had raped her a few years prior.

I’m not sure I believe it (there was alcohol involved and he’s a super kind person, so my suspicion is that she regretted it and saw it as rape because they were both drunk), but I believe she believes it and she is my number one.

Not saying you raped anybody. Just giving an example of a reason.