• Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de
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    20 hours ago

    I hear you but what cranked it up to 1000?

    Like I always saw my mom as a extremely competent person, as a child she was flawless. Nowadays, I see her flaws but I am flawed, so if my father and any person I ever met. I am impressed by my sister and how I can be like the person that she is in many ways.

    I am talking about my direct family because these women had a lot of influence on me. So I wonder, what was their experience like to think so poorly of women? Not blaming the women in their social circle for being “bad”, I just wonder wtf happened. Where does that belief come from? I don’t think they all had great experiences with their male role models but horrible ones with their female role models. So what is it?

    • MisterFrog@lemmy.world
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      40 minutes ago

      I hear you but what cranked it up to 1000?

      I unfortunately am not versed enough in the topic to give a full answer on this, I’d guess upbringing, then personal experiences?

      I suppose it’s similar to people who are arseholes in general.

      Sorry for the very underwhelming answer haha