• [deleted]@piefed.world
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    4 months ago

    In Kansas you can be butt ass naked on the sidewalk as long as you aren’t making it sexual.

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        4 months ago

        Behave the same way you would with clothes on. Just do things like tending a garden or talking to neighbors.

        Think about it this way: Some guys like their nipples played with and can rub their nipples in public without getting any real attention unless they do it towards kids or something. Why is a bare nipple on a woman automatically sexual just because it is exposed? It isn’t automatically sexual despite a bunch of prudes assuming it is.

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          4 months ago

          It would take oh so much conditioning to think like that. You would have to be taught to think like that from the beginning. Society would need one hell of an overhaul.

          I’m afraid to stare in the direction of a clothed woman’s boobs, which often causes me to awkwardly U-turn, because I don’t want the bullshit I had to experience before (someone notices, and gives you comments like “go grab her by the pussy” or other disgusting shit). Even with those societal barriers gone, you would basically need intense therapy to not feel wrong seeing naked people.

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            4 months ago

            I’m afraid to stare in the direction of a clothed woman’s boobs

            Staring is generally frowned upon regardless of a person being clothed or unclothed, but one is entirely free to look in a certain direction or do what is comfortable without fear - which includes looking at another person briefly.

            someone notices, and gives you comments like “go grab her by the pussy” or other disgusting shit

            I can’t say I’ve ever had that experience, but you don’t have to be uncomfortable if somebody caught you in moment like that.

            you would basically need intense therapy to not feel wrong seeing naked people.

            People have very little reasons to be nude e.g. in modern American society, but it doesn’t have to be weird or sexual. The laws obviously need to catch up first and foremost, but I feel like there’s nothing wrong with being naked - even if a person has more ahem overt sexual characteristics that others take note of.

            The thing about nudity is that people generally gradually get used to it. The differences become less impactful after a certain point. Sure it takes time, and people who have issues with their appearance and body may have greater barriers, but I don’t feel like intense therapy is needed for most.

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              I will just stare blankly with my thoughts on something else, and get accused of gazing. That’s the thing, I have to go out of my way not to stare at a person, which often means walking awkwardly, sometimes hitting something I was not looking at 🤷‍♂️

              I will pretty much only gaze at a woman if pressured, and I can’t even keep that up. The programming is strong that this is very wrong.

              TL;DR: I hate male company as a result, in an ironic twist.

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                4 months ago

                So, the only reason you can come up with against public nudity is that you specifically are unable to control themselves 🤔

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                Well if I was with you in public, I’d definitely be supporting you to feel more comfortable in your skin. Regardless of the broader topic of nudity and all that, I hope you can find someone who can help you out in that way or generally hope you can make a breakthrough somehow in this area.

                I admit I’ve dealt with this myself and I had the same intense fear growing up due to bullying, but we have to learn to give ourselves a break. I feel like a lot of people forget that we are all mammals - physical beings that are occupying a space. Sometimes we do have sexual desires or interests, but as long as we aren’t intending on making things sexual or awkward - usually it’s all a-okay. If we offend someone else with our gaze, sometimes the best thing is to just apologize and play it off.

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              I think the dude you’re responding to hasn’t actually been in these situations but has fantasized about it so long that it’s bleeding into his worldview.

              It gives incel tbh because those guys are always coming up with hypotheticals about women to get mad at and feel victimized by.

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                4 months ago

                Maybe they are just speaking to their ADHD and living in an oversexualized, yet prude society? I just didn’t read the incel angle.

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      4 months ago

      As far as I’m aware, here in Denmark you can be nude on your property as much as you want to, as long as your nudity isn’t an attempt to make unwilling people part of some sexual thing. Like you can be naked in your front yard, but you can’t keep eye contact with people passing by while furiously masturbating. Sunbathing with your tits out though? People can look away.

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        4 months ago

        That sounds kind of reasonable.

        Except the folk who have been conditioned that it is basically rape to stare at unconsenting naked peope, would starve to death.

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          4 months ago

          I suppose if you’re laying naked in your front yard, you consent to people taking a peek, but everything with a bit of common sense. You’re not gonna be popular around the neighborhood if you’re staring and drooling.

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      4 months ago

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        “In Oregon, it is not illegal to be naked in public. We do have a public indecency law and a private indecency law, but both of those have a required element," Miller said. “It has to be for the purpose of arousal for it to be illegal. That was not the case in this issue.”

        So, dude walking around with his junk hanging out? Not illegal. Dude jacking it in public? Illegal.

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          4 months ago

          for the purpose of arousal

          Dude jacking it in public? Illegal.

          Why? As long as he is jacking it for himself it should be allowed if the purpose is the deciding element.

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              4 months ago

              In Oregon or all over the US?

              Would a brown paper bag in front of the private parts make it legal, like alcohol?

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              But how do you evaluate if people are unconsenting about an act before the act takes place? That’d be premature evaluation.

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            Would be a fun defense to try:

            “Your honor, you’ve seen the video, nobody is aroused by that…”

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      4 months ago

      Is that a typo, did you mean to say “so long as you ARE being weird about it.”? Weird, as in: naked bike ride.

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      4 months ago

      What about this same scenario, but most of the non-curtained windows have plants partially obstructing them, and those that don’t would require trespassing to look into?

      Who am I kidding, I don’t care. I’m gunna do it anyway.

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      Well, if someone would have to put effort to see you naked, it’s their fault for being stupid. And if they have suspiciously many “accidents”, they should be viable for a SH lawsuit.

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        I dunno, if they have a suspicious number of accidents in their house, maybe you should stop staring through their window

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          i dunno. if they lack any effective window coverings i’d say it’s less of an accident, which is i guess what you’d be trying to prove.

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            Yeah like I can’t help that my windows point to their windows.

            It cuts both ways because intent matters.

            Don’t stare into people’s houses like a freak but also don’t jerk your shit spread eagle in the front bay window.

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      I strongly believe that if you’re looking into my window and see consensual sex acts, it’s your fault not mine.

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    4 months ago

    Why does the live free or die state always have less liberal laws than its Vermont neighbour?

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    4 months ago

    Going nude in your backyard in November in Oregon sounds like a standard thing. We got naked bike rides so, yeah, this checks.

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    Lock me up.

    I used to go outside at like 2 or 3am for a sprint around my backyard nude a few times when I was like a teenager.